Friday, May 05, 2006

We Love Mummy

Hi Baby, Daddy's here

It has been a long time that I've not contribute to this blog. Just to tell you that I love you as much as I love mummy. You're very special to me, Mummy too very special to me. Without listening to her for one day my life would be Empty ;) I listen to you everyday from mummy's tummy. I thank God for blessing me with the two of you. Alhamdulillah...

Mummy is a very strong women. Eventhough she's pregnant she did most of the housework like washing, ironing and folding the clothes not forgetting cleaning the house. She also try her best to cook whenever she can. She cook the best chicken curry I've ever taste! My colleague loves it a lot. I appreciate all the things that mummy has done for me. I hope you too. Thank You Mummy!

Today Daddy saw 2 accident while returning home from work. The first accident involving a motorcyclist and a lorry. The motorcyclist lie in the middle of the road face down unconscious when I reach the scene. I guess he tried to beat the traffic light when the lorry came. I hope he's ok.

The second thing that I saw was an old men lying on the floor. Passerby told me that he slip and fall on his back. I can see a pool of blood on the floor from the back of his head. I advice him not to move until the Ambulance came, cause he may aggravate the pain to other parts of his body. A passerby help to stop his blood from flowing by putting him up right by using some cloth. Not long after that the ambulance came. The paramedic bandaged his head and bring him to the hospital. From these two incident, daddy realise that speeding kills and when it does our loved ones will suffer. Daddy will be more careful when riding the motorcycle.

Anyway, I am very excited to see you next week. Next week will be your detail scan. I hope everything will go smoothly. Insya-Allah. Whenever I see you I feel so happy and excited. We are so close yet I cannot touch you. I can only feel you from mummy's tummy. Whenever I hear you from mummy's tummy I recollect what I saw from the scan. That's how I cherish the moment with you and mummy. Often then not you will move your hands and legs whenever we see you through the scan.

Love and kisses from
Daddy

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Just a thought...

Hi again,

Today mummy is full of energy. I did all the housework, go to the nearby shop and I feel like communicating with you. I was just thinking, instead of just telling you about our mummy and daddy's daily life and also about your growing progress, I believe I need to share with you my principles and philosophy in life. You need not follow all my habits and believes. I just want you to know and understand. And you decide your own believes, principles and what you want in life.

For today let's talk about money. We need money to survive. We need money to pay bills, food, education, tranport and bla bla bla... *Erkkk.. I just brag that am energetic today. But I just had a major headache and vomitted a whole lot of papaya..sigh*
But money can never determine that we will end up in heaven when we die. In this world money can destroy relationship with loved ones and family, it can buy you, you can earn respect and some people marry a person because of money. Because of money people can do a lot of bad things just to get more of it. Money makes people feel secure. It is happening every where. I meet these people all the time. I am sick of it. But I cannot do anything about it. I don't have a magic wand to change people's attitude towards money.
I know a few people who have lots of money and many properties in a few countries. But they are not happy. They are aware that there a many things lacking in their life such as love, faithful kids, faithful spouse, health etc. People who grew with lots of money and end up losing money and struggle through their life may know the meaning of money. It is just a paper to get by our daily life. For people who grew up with not much money may forget themselves when they are richer. It is sad to see these people. Actually these people don't own their money but their money own them. There are people who respect people who they thought have lots of money just because these people wear expensive stuff. Only Almighty God knows that they may have tonnes of credit card debts. By the way try not to buy things using credit card or on instalment. You will end paying a lot of interest if you don't pay it on time. Never ever make use of other people money. You must earn your money the halal way. For girls, husband money should not be abuse. Just buy what is needed. We must save for future education for our next generation.
Anyway these are people in the world. There are nice people in the world who always help the needy and live a simple life. These are the kind of people ought to be respected. To mummy, money is just a piece of paper. I am not rich. I don't dream of having tonnes of money for myself. I just need money for supporting my kids basics and education and to get by my daily life. I will make use of money for education. I may only splurge on expensive useful things once a while. This is just not to let my kids feel deprive of luxury. This luxury ought to be earn like being top 10 in schools etc. When you are working, I don't need you to earn more than $10000 per mth to make me happy. I would be happy if you could read and understand the Quran, you do volunteer work, help the needy and cause no harm or difficulty to anybody including strangers. It is important for you to pay your Zakat. This is to cleanse your wealth. If you go to the mosque always try to donate some money even as little as $2.
Eventhough mummy don't love money that doesn't mean I gave away money easily. I will select the people to help in terms of cash. If our help will make a person worst, I will not offer any. For example, if that person splurge or spent on haram things, no way am going to help that person. It all depends on my judgement and trust. If this person always cause problems and expect help easily, I may not help just to show that person need to be more responsible to his own life.
Money is complicated. People have different views about money. I believe there are millions of people don't agree with me. But I don't care. As long as I am not blinded by money, I am happy. So my dear darling.. always zakat sincerely not to gain respect or show to people. It is all between you and Allah. Insya-Allah
Love you
Mummy

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Just another day...

Hey Handsome..

How are u today? I wonder how old are you when you are reading this blog. Anyway, nothing much happen. Mummy and daddy been helping your grandparents with their new house. But actually daddy help them.... mummy just supervise :) You grandparents (daddy's parents) shifting a new place. I like their new house. Very well ventilated.

Yesterday we went to the new house again. Daddy helped with dismentaling a built in wardrobe left by the previous owner. Mummy begin to be restless when my body itch. Before it gets worst I went for a walk at the nearby shops. I can't have any contact with dust since I am pregnant. My body will itch terribly. While walking I saw a beauty saloon. I decided to get a facial done. From outside the saloon it looks okay. Not so aunty-aunty saloon. I decided on a one time facial which cost me $68 on promotion. Actually it cost $90. While the beautician is doing her job to my face. I observe their hygiene and the steps she takes to clean my face. This is the first saloon uses water direct from the tap and clean the sponge or cloth at the sink. Most places uses 2 pails to clean the sponges and they re-use the water for the next step. I am always uncomfortable about this. Even I go to the a prestigious saloon they still use 2 pails only. One for clean water and another for squeezing out the dirt from the sponge. I was so happy about their hygiene. After every wipe on my face she will take the sponge under the tap water after that rinse it again with some solution and discard the solution in the sink. Isn't it hygienic?!

Anyway mummy is a bit of a hygiene freak. No shoes in the house, once you step in the house you must wash your legs, I washed clothes even when you wear it for 30 mins, I rinse the cups with hot water or reverse osmosis water before using it and no lying on the bed when you are sweaty or just came back home. You must take your bath and change to clean clothes then you are allowed to be on the bed. When I am not busy and before am pregnant, I will vacuum and mop the house everyday. But now I can't because of my sensitive skin. Daddy got to help out at home.

On Wednesday, we went to surprise your cousins at Bedok. We volunteered to pick them up from their tuition ctr at Katong Mall. We waited for them in front of the building. When Syaza saw us in the car and she immediately smile and run towards us. Followed by Putri and Hannah who was also running. They were very surprised. Fetch them and we went to Tanjong Katong Complex to buy dresses for mummy. Most of dresses can't fit anymore due to my growing tummy. Daddy bought for mummy 2 dresses and we bought some food to bring back to Bedok.

At Bedok, I let everybody listened your heart beat using the heart listener. Your cousins were very excited. We had fun there. Aunty Hawa also happy to receive a copy of her twins video. All of them kept on giggling while watching it. It was time to go home. Aunty volunteered to send us home and everybody tag along. On the way home, I bought for everyone ice cream and we continued our journey home.

You have been in my tummy for 22weeks and 2 days. You are still actively kicking me. I can feel you are growing bigger today. I don't know why but I just feel it. Yesterday daddy took a video of me while I was walking. I had a shocked. My tummy had grown so big without realising. I am happy you are growing healthily. Next week we will be going for a detail scan. Insya-Allah everything will be fine.

love love love uuuuu
Mummy

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Sunday, April 30, 2006

Sob sob sob

Dear Baby,

These few days mummy feeling blue. I don't know why. I think I need to inform my doctor in case I am experiencin depression. I cry easily and get worry over nothing. I hid myself at home. Now home alone waiting for daddy to come back from afternoon shift.

I cried a few times today. In the morning I cried about something and it got nothing to do with me. Late afternoon, I read stories about labour and I feel so touched that I cried a few times. In fact after every touching story. I also begin to think about touching stuff.. ahhh mummy so feeling don't know why.

Just before Maghrib my sister call up and ask me if I want to join her for tahlil at Jurong. I refused. I just want to be alone. So far I have not contacted any of my friends and did not talk much. Keep to myself most of the time. Maybe am stressed out because I know I have to.... hmmm I don't want to talk about it. I just don't want to meet certain people because I don't want to be hurt. I even thought of changing my assistant but it will give him a lot of trouble.

Or maybe I am too worried about your character. I read and watched documentary that if I am depressed during pregnancy, my baby will be an anxious baby. I don't want you to be anxious. I don't want you to be temperamental. If you are temperamental you might hurt other people feelings which may lead to sin.

arghhh mummy super sensitive these days. Prefer to be alone. So my dear baby if you gonna be a boy, when you get married, you must understand your wife's mood swings. And my dear baby if you turn out to be a baby girl, if you have mood swings, please tell your husband so that he understands.

Love you heaps
Mummy

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